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You Can’t Masturbate Your Way to a Million Dollars w / Caitlin V
Join us LIVE AT FIVE (PT) on YouTube for the watch party every Wednesday: https://www.youtube.com/@birdsandbeesdontfck Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach, former sexuality researcher, author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger, and host of Good Sex on HBO Max from Michigan where her earliest sex education included a fifth-grade period lesson, a graphic STI scare slide in health class, and years of curiosity about pleasure that she had already discovered on her own. In this episode we talk about what men actually want help with in their sex lives, why performance goals like “lasting longer” rarely solve the real problem, and how intimacy, not frequency, is what most couples are actually craving. Caitlin shares how she went from academic sex research at the Kinsey Institute to coaching men about sex and relationships, why maintenance sex can quietly kill desire, and how intention, presence, and curiosity can transform a sex life. We also get into astrology and sexual chemistry, loud sex and the connection between breath and orgasm, group dynamics in intimacy, why coaching spaces for men matter, and the surprising way Caitlin realized academia wasn’t where she wanted to make her impact. Caitlin and I are not fcking around with these Reddit stories. Join Patreon and dive in! https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck  Where to find Caitlin: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinV Book (Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger): https://harderbook.com Where to find Arielle: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsandbeesdontfck TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@birdsandbeesdontfck  Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck   Bonus stories found exclusively on Patreon; STORY 1: I think my wife 31-F might be poisoning me 34-M, and I don’t know what to do STORY 2: I [28F] am dating a divorcing dad [34M] and it’s starting to take over my life STORY 3: My bf (M29) is threatening to break up with me (F24) over condoms   Like my cuffs? Me too! Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here:https://lovecrave.com/arielle   Episode Cheat Sheet 02:14 Astrology, Sexual Chemistry & Scorpio/Leo Energy 06:03 Loud Sex, Breath & Orgasm Connection 08:15 Getting Caught Having Sex & Early Exploration 11:07 Claiming, Dominance & Sexual Identity 13:28 Science, Magic & Manifestation in Sex 16:12 Why Caitlin Coaches Men About Sex 19:02 Why Most Therapists Aren’t Trained in Sexuality 21:36 Quality vs Quantity in Long-Term Sex 23:45 Why “Maintenance Sex” Kills Desire 26:04 Physical, Emotional & Spiritual Sex Explained 28:20 Co-Regulation, Group Energy & Intimacy 32:21 Why Male Friendship & Community Matter 36:54 Boundaries, Accountability & Relationship Conflict 45:33 Communication, Softening & Honest Feedback 46:58 Growing Up in Michigan & Early Sex Education 49:24 Masturbation, Pleasure & STI Fear-Based Education 52:05 Becoming a Sex Researcher at Kinsey Institute 56:12 Leaving Academia & Starting a Sex Education Platform 01:00:37 Coaching vs Influencing in Sex Education 01:02:50 Changing Career Paths & Following Your Zone of Genius 01:04:43 Patreon Reddit Stories Preview
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