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Richard Schwartz on IFS, NVC, Mediation, Spirituality, and Society - S2 Ep 1
In this episode of the Mediate Your Life podcast, John sits down with Richard Schwartz, founder of the internationally renowned and respected work of Internal Family Systems (IFS), for a wide-ranging and heart-warming dialogue on the bridges between IFS, Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and Mediate Your Life models and approaches, as well as revealing and inspiring conversation about Dick’s life, core aspects of the models, and the healing of our world. Dick shares the unlikely origins of IFS, including the personal struggles that nearly stopped him from bringing it forward, and why humility even more than brilliance turned out to be key to its success. Together, Dick and John explore how Self in IFS and empathic presence and needs language in NVC are pointing at the same essential ground, how parts language can support NVC practice, and why speaking from Self rather than parts changes everything in conflict and communication. The conversation moves from the deeply personal to the boldly collective — touching on spirituality, legacy trauma, the social-political world, and what it might mean to bring more Self-energy onto the planet at this moment in history. A rich, honest, and at times deeply moving exchange between two founders who have dedicated their lives to the work of human connection. 0:00 - Intro 0:47 - John Introduces Richard 3:25 - Richard’s Pathway to IFS and Relationship with Father 6:40 - Parts and Inner Personalities 11:50 - Stigma around Multiplicity/Fragmenting 16:25 - How Richard has handled adversity 21:45 - NVC and criticism 23:15 - Being the Founder of IFS 26:25 - Non-Violent Communication Principles 33:15 - Emotion and NVC 35:25 - Similarities between IFS and NVC 37:35 - “C Word Qualities” 39:25 - Requests 42:35 - Where you are Speaking From 49:55 - Needs 53:25 - Self  57:35 - Empathic Resonance & Compassion 1:00:25 - Goals of IFS vs NVC  1:05:25 - The Self vs Parts Leading 1:09:10 - Leadership and Cooperation Between Parts 1:13:10 - Spirituality and Self 1:15:50 - Consciousness, Psychedelics, and the Psychic World 1:18:50 - Guides and Wisdom 1:21:45 - The Energy of Self 1:25:20 - Richard’s Advice to Others  
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