1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 I didn't want to be there. I said it out loud to a woman I barely knew at a children's museum — overstimulated, exhausted, maybe just used to no one listening. She said me too. That friendship has lasted twenty years. That's what this episode is about. This week we talk about the loneliness nobody names — the kind that lives inside a full life — and why so many of us are performing fine in the presence of women who are holding the exact same thing.&amp;nbsp; We talk about the should's that keep us quiet, why adult friendship is harder than it used to be, and what becomes possible when someone is finally too tired to perform. SayTheThings's podcast http://saythethings.libsyn.com/website <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/41070540/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/item/41070540