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  <title>Midlife aka Gray Divorce with LA Attorney Lisa Helfend Meyer</title>
  <description>  &amp;amp;nbsp; The best-selling book Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage—which is being adapted into a film starring Gwyneth Paltrow— has put midlife aka gray divorce in the zeitgeist. In the book, Belle Burden recounts marrying a wildly successful businessman who, at the height of the pandemic, discovers her husband is having an affair.&amp;amp;nbsp; He leaves her the next day, abruptly ending their 20-year marriage. She thought they were both happy. Making matters even worse, the Ivy league-educated former corporate attorney—who had shelved her career to stay at home with kids—was clueless about the couple's finances. And she had signed a prenup that prevented her from sharing in any of her husband's earnings during the marriage. &amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp; So this week I’m re-running an episode of  SheSez  that features an&amp;amp;nbsp;interview with prominent L.A. divorce attorney Lisa Helfend Meyer. We cover numerous topics: why prenups can be overturned; why mediation can disadvantage women; the “I earned it, why do I have to give her anything?” counter argument; and how we women are wired to be eternal optimists which can sometimes gets us in tricky situations.   &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
  <author_name>SheSez with Linda Grasso</author_name>
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