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  <title>Wait… Is This A Kinky Dinner Party? w/ Maurice James</title>
  <description>Join the live watch party on YouTube today, episode release day, at 5p PT / 8p ET:&amp;amp;nbsp;https://www.youtube.com/@birdsandbeesdontfck Maurice James is a comedian, host, actor, and co-creator of Kinky Comedy from Jackson, Mississippi where his formal sex education came from an Episcopalian school science class taught by a teacher who carried a petrified bull testicle cane… and where sex ed mostly felt like mitosis and meiosis rather than anything connected to his own body. Want to her Maurice and I unfiltered reading Reddit stories? Join the afterparty over on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck  Get my Yes / No / Maybe List mentioned in this episode Where to find Maurice: Instagram: @mauricejamescomedy &amp;amp;amp; @kinkycomedy Kinky Comedy: https://www.kinkycomedy.com &amp;amp;nbsp; Where to find Arielle: Instagram: @birdsandbeesdontfck  TikTok: @birdsandbeesdontfck Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck &amp;amp;nbsp; Bonus stories found exclusively on Patreon  STORY 1: My life has imploded. Husband 29M slept with my mom 55F right before we got married two years ago. STORY 2: I told my girlfriend I sometimes think about other girls during sex and she lost it  Like your jewlery a bit kinky? Me too. Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here:&amp;amp;nbsp;https://lovecrave.com/arielle &amp;amp;nbsp; Episode Cheat Sheet 02:32 The origin of Kinky Comedy and bringing kink and comedy together 04:11 Why being a good Dom requires communication, trust and emotional intelligence 08:14 Yes / No / Maybe lists and negotiating kink scenes 10:33 Why sex is like producing a film or planning a journey 12:57 Rope bondage, body awareness and communicating boundaries 15:08 Practicing “no” and learning to hold boundaries 19:11 Maurice’s unexpected introduction to kink at a Tinder dinner party 21:21 Why kink communities value clarity and communication 23:41 Shame, sexuality and the fear of being rejected by community 25:59 Coming out as kinky and the real career risks involved 30:39 Authenticity, privilege and living a fully expressed life 37:37 Growing up in Jackson, Mississippi 39:53 Sex education in religious private school 42:11 Why sex education needs to be ongoing and age appropriate 44:31 Abstinence education and the harm of ignoring sexuality 48:23 High school sex culture, late bloomers and learning from friends 50:23 Munches, kink community and finding people on the same journey 52:06 Losing a job, breakup and starting stand-up comedy 54:05 Building Kinky Comedy from a backyard show to a touring production 57:55 Community support and watching creative projects grow 59:58 Producing a show vs developing as a comedian 01:01:37 Comedy etiquette and why audiences shouldn’t film comedians </description>
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