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  <title>Ep 19: Espresso Martinis, Magic Hats, and Why &amp;quot;Leads&amp;quot; are Actually People</title>
  <description>What happens when you mix almond milk &amp;quot;holiday nog,&amp;quot; espresso martinis, and two seasoned coaches talking shop? &amp;amp;nbsp;You get a masterclass in building a business that actually respects your soul&amp;amp;nbsp;. &amp;amp;nbsp;In part two of this deep dive, Erin and Elana move past the &amp;quot;Goal Swamp&amp;quot; of Facebook ads and cold metrics to explore what it really means to nurture relationships and lead with a pure heart&amp;amp;nbsp;. &amp;amp;nbsp;From the library of 700 books to the literal &amp;quot;pointy witch hat&amp;quot; Erin wears for coaching sessions, this episode is about shifting from &amp;quot;how do I make money?&amp;quot; to &amp;quot;how can I truly help?&amp;quot;&amp;amp;nbsp;. In This Episode, We Discuss:   The Espresso Martini Experiment: Why Elana is &amp;quot;doctoring&amp;quot; drinks with holiday nog and why staying awake past 9:30 PM is the ultimate entrepreneurial challenge&amp;amp;nbsp;.   Beyond the &amp;quot;Lead&amp;quot;: Moving away from &amp;quot;robot empire&amp;quot; terminology and focusing on the people already in your orbit&amp;amp;nbsp;.   Creating Safety in Marketing: How working backwards from &amp;quot;what does someone need to feel safe spending their time with me?&amp;quot; is more powerful than any $300k revenue goal&amp;amp;nbsp;.   Old Lady Wisdom on Rejection: Why rejection isn't personal or final—it’s often just a sign that you haven't created enough safety yet&amp;amp;nbsp;.   The Luxury Car Sales Experience: What high-end car sales can teach us about non-pushy, high-integrity invitations&amp;amp;nbsp;.   Wearing the &amp;quot;Magic Hat&amp;quot;: Why Erin mentally (and sometimes literally) separates &amp;quot;business building days&amp;quot; from &amp;quot;coaching days&amp;quot; to keep the space sacred for her clients&amp;amp;nbsp;.&amp;amp;nbsp;   Memorable Quotes   &amp;quot;Are we growing people right now? Like, what are we doing? People are not leads.&amp;quot; &amp;amp;nbsp;— Elana   &amp;quot;There's nothing I can do or not do that's going to bring this person closer if they're not the right person.&amp;quot; &amp;amp;nbsp;— Erin   &amp;quot;My coaching hat is on... it's a pointy witch hat and we're doing magic with clients.&amp;quot; &amp;amp;nbsp;— Erin   For full show notes and to learn more about Erin and Elana's work visit  https://besuperabound.com/coachingmixer/ep-19-espresso-martinis-magic-hats-and-why-leads-are-actually-people </description>
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