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  <title>Love is a marathon not a sprint</title>
  <description>  It’s a common myth and narrative that love hits like fireworks—a single, undeniable lightning bolt moment. But for me, it was a long, often tumultuous journey of heartbreak, self-discovery, and a lot of patience that finally led me to my 'one.'  &amp;amp;nbsp;   In this episode, I’m getting raw and unfiltered about the decade I spent single and the 'messy growth' it took to finally be ready for the relationship I have now. I’m sharing the real story of meeting my husband, from our first Hinge match to the quiet, profound moments where I realized he was different.  &amp;amp;nbsp;   I’m diving into:   The Myth of Instant Certainty:  Why waiting for a 'sign' might be blocking you from the right person.  &amp;amp;nbsp;   Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck:  How getting outside your comfort zone (and your apartment!) creates the serendipity needed for love to find you.  &amp;amp;nbsp;   Becoming the Right Partner:  The hard truths I had to face in therapy about my own 'fake confidence' and how I was actually closing myself off.  &amp;amp;nbsp;   The Power of Spontaneity: Why I’m learning to trade my 'recovering planner' tendencies for impromptu date nights at cozy hotel bars.  &amp;amp;nbsp;   Whether you’re single and feeling stuck, navigating the anxiety of a new relationship, or years into a marriage, this episode is a reminder that love is a marathon, not a sprint. It’s not about the grand gestures; it’s about the consistent, ordinary moments where you choose each other repeatedly.  &amp;amp;nbsp;   I hope my story reminds you that your unique journey is exactly where it’s supposed to be. Let’s figure it out together.  &amp;amp;nbsp;  Follow me on Instagram   Shop by Gift Guides!  ShopMy - What I’m Loving Lately  &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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