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  <title>From Netflix's 'Sex, Love &amp;amp; goop' to Erotic Wholeness: Darshana Avila on Asking For What You Want</title>
  <description>Darshana Avila left her corporate career and her marriage, and stepped into a life of erotic wholeness.&amp;amp;nbsp; Now she's a Certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner &amp;amp;amp; Sexological Bodyworker featured on Netflix's Sex, Love &amp;amp;amp; goop with Gwyneth Paltrow - and she's here to talk about what most of us are too afraid to ask for.&amp;amp;nbsp; In this episode, we talk about:&amp;amp;nbsp;  Knowing what you want (in sex and in life) and actually asking for it: Why high-achieving women can run companies but can't speak their desires in bed.&amp;amp;nbsp; The identity crisis that led to liberation: How Darshana walked away from everything that wasn't aligned - and what happened next.&amp;amp;nbsp; Her experience on Netflix's Sex, Love &amp;amp;amp; goop: Working with a lesbian couple to help them understand what they want, need, and hw to speak it out loud.&amp;amp;nbsp; Erotic wholeness as a path to power: How reclaiing pleasure is an act of rebellion (and sovereignty)&amp;amp;nbsp; People-pleasing in the bedroom (and eveywhere else): Why saying yes when you mean no kills intimacy, and how to stop.&amp;amp;nbsp;  This conversation is raw, real and permission-giving. If you've ever felt disconnected from your body, your desires, or your power, this one's for you.&amp;amp;nbsp; Connect with Darshana:&amp;amp;nbsp; Website Want more? Subscribe to The Selfish Woman Podcast (ranked top 3% globally) for weekly conversations about identity, power and building empires on your terms.&amp;amp;nbsp; New episodes every Monday. Named Feedspots #23 in the Top 80 Best Badass Female Podcasts of 2026&amp;amp;nbsp; Take the Reveal Your Mask Quiz&amp;amp;nbsp; Please leave a review! It help more women find us.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
  <author_name>The Selfish Woman</author_name>
  <author_url>https://www.valeriejones.ca</author_url>
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