1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 Most men are decent at setting goals for where they want to go. Almost nobody sets goals for who they want to be on the way there. In this episode, I break down the difference between destination goals and journey goals, share my actual present-tense vision statements across six life areas, and give you a framework for writing your own — even if you're currently in separation. 🔗 Full show notes + free PDF one-sheet: https://husbandhelphaven.com/podcast/destination-vs-journey-goals/ 🔗 Join Husband Help Group:&amp;nbsp;husbandhelphaven.com/group Timestamps: 0:00 — Introduction 0:31 — Why separated men especially need this 2:36 — Why most men don't goal-set like they think 3:41 — &quot;I never cheated, I never hit her&quot; — why bare minimum isn't enough 4:51 — The &quot;passively decent husband&quot; trap 6:58 — The absence of intentionality 7:49 — Two types of goals: destination vs. journey 9:33 — Terry's story: what happens with only destination goals 11:30 — Vision ≠ vision boards (the sprinter analogy) 13:33 — How I structure goals by life area 16:36 — My actual vision statements (marriage, family, faith, mind) 20:15 — The four layers of goal setting 21:45 — Husband Help Group + free one-sheet resource 23:37 — Action steps: what to do from here 26:14 — Separation-specific application 28:17 — Should you share this with your wife? 30:09 — Next episode preview Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce https://husbandhelphaven.com <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/40110165/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/content/198571965