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  <title>Stop “Performing” and Live with Intention as an Adult ADHD</title>
  <description>In this episode of Overcoming Distractions, Dave welcomes mindset coach and former therapist Cindi Frechette to discuss a non-traditional approach to thriving with ADHD. Moving beyond surface-level productivity hacks like to-do lists and timers…, Cindi introduces the Unknow Method, a framework designed for high achievers to manage mental chaos and mitigate burnout. Cindi shares her &amp;quot;lived experience&amp;quot; with ADHD, offering a unique perspective on how internal narratives drive behavior. Together, they explore how busy professionals can stop &amp;quot;performing&amp;quot; and start living authentically by aligning their daily actions with their deepest values. Key Discussion Topics:  The Unknow Method: A three-step framework consisting of Unravel (identifying automated thoughts), Rebuild (strengthening self-identity), and Reclaim (mastering time and energy). The &amp;quot;Thought Dump&amp;quot; Exercise: A practical tool to separate objective facts from ruminating opinions. The Neuroscience of Overthinking: Understanding how the ADHD brain interprets survival signals and conserves energy.  Value-Based Decision Making: Why re-evaluating your personal values every 3–6 months is essential for long-term alignment. Masking and Burnout: How &amp;quot;performing success&amp;quot; leads to internal exhaustion and how to reverse-engineer your feelings to change your actions.  Freebie to offer: “You can grab Cindi’s free Thought Reset Tool at https://stan.store/Unknowwithcindi . It’s designed to help you pause the chaos and rebuild clarity ADHD brain approved.” **Do you want to work with Dave one-on-one? Go to www.overcomingdistractions.com and book an introductory Zoom chat. Or go directly to Dave’s calendar; https://calendly.com/davidgreenwood1/15min &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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