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  <title>Selfish and Self-Centered - Recovered 648</title>
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As a self-centered person, &#13;
I only see myself as the centre of everything &#13;
At my worst, &#13;
I do not consider what my actions would mean to others. &#13;
The big book says that&#13;
being self-centered is &amp;amp;nbsp;&#13;
in direct conflict with our new way of living in recovery.&#13;
Let&amp;amp;rsquo;s start with self-centeredness Chrissy&#13;
What does being self-centered mean to you?&#13;
How has recovery helped?&#13;
How does self-centeredness manifest itself today?&#13;
What part of the program do you use to combat this?&#13;
When I&amp;amp;rsquo;m acting selfish&#13;
I want to receive more than give. &#13;
When I&amp;amp;rsquo;m really sick, &#13;
I will give only if I think &#13;
that the return will be larger than my giving&#13;
But the book says&amp;amp;hellip;&#13;
Selfishness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles.&#13;
The Book also says&amp;amp;hellip;&#13;
Above everything, we alcoholics must be rid of this selfishness. We must, or it kills us!&#13;
So this is about as important of a subject as it gets.&#13;
What is selfishness to you and how does it differ from being self-centered?&#13;
What part of the program helps to defeat this selfishness?&#13;
Has the program made you less selfish than before? &amp;amp;nbsp;How?&#13;
What does &amp;amp;ldquo;This is a selfish program&amp;amp;rdquo; mean to you.&#13;
How do you know when you have gone from self care to selfishness?&#13;
How do you do self care?&#13;
How do you know when self care has moved into being selfish?&#13;
Lance&#13;
https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_DLoz1FHILe93CMmQl3d_tdol2kSFX2keYbYbfE8-cKibyxr56Ot9OmCiboRtQJPz_t9_z9PHretRt3Rxd9PUtAtcD81sWZR8dbxQrnFvKE6brUIZlWw86CWjhmt_yBIGDyV5mwY49kGW66vsT3h566bot1DA&#13;
Zach&#13;
https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_AHgYNTToSkXpauq_sgkbFDywNVm86OxFMmSFVNeAtL3q4oZRb3bZTiaAJwq64_l1dUFtarzqG_bBA_SjJjICD31wh8zfwt3A99pr-IlHSv9IFFJflUY9rvs0L7Ya8aVP75W7Vw0Cjqtwdy8Tb7k7gdGeYx0g&#13;
Who would you rather be around, &#13;
Self-centered Mark or&#13;
Selfish Mark&#13;
Why?&#13;
If this character defect is so dangerous, would you point it out in someone else if you spot it?&#13;
How would you do that?</description>
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