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  <title>Brennan Wood On How Grief Is To Feel, Not Fix - Even At The Holidays</title>
  <description> It’s&amp;amp;nbsp;our annual holiday episode, this time with Dougy Center Executive Director&amp;amp;nbsp;and TEDx speaker&amp;amp;nbsp;Brennan Wood. Brennan first&amp;amp;nbsp;encountered&amp;amp;nbsp;Dougy Center after her mom, Doris, died of breast cancer three days after Brennan’s 12th&amp;amp;nbsp;birthday.&amp;amp;nbsp;She has since navigated&amp;amp;nbsp;almost four decades of&amp;amp;nbsp;holiday&amp;amp;nbsp;seasons&amp;amp;nbsp;with grief along for the ride.&amp;amp;nbsp;She shares about the early years that were awful; the young-adult years she spent volunteering away from family; and how, as an adult,&amp;amp;nbsp;she’s&amp;amp;nbsp;learned&amp;amp;nbsp;to hold both grief and joy while creating new traditions for her own family.&amp;amp;nbsp;Whether this is your&amp;amp;nbsp;first&amp;amp;nbsp;or 41st&amp;amp;nbsp;holiday season with grief, this conversation&amp;amp;nbsp;offers validation, tangible suggestions, and new ways to think about this time of year.&amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp;   We discuss:&amp;amp;nbsp;     How attending a peer grief support group&amp;amp;nbsp;as a teen introduced Brennan to the idea&amp;amp;nbsp;that grief is to feel, not fix.   Accepting that not everything has to be bright and shiny, especially during the holidays.&amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp;   Recalling the&amp;amp;nbsp;first Christmas after her mom died and why it&amp;amp;nbsp;felt&amp;amp;nbsp;awful.&amp;amp;nbsp;   New traditions she's&amp;amp;nbsp;created as an adult with her own family.&amp;amp;nbsp;   Grounding rituals Brennan&amp;amp;nbsp;uses, especially during the holidays.&amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp;   Why  it's&amp;amp;nbsp;okay to be mad at holiday traditions you used to&amp;amp;nbsp;love.&amp;amp;nbsp;     Need additional tips and suggestions for this time of year? Check out our past episodes and&amp;amp;nbsp;our&amp;amp;nbsp;Holiday Grief Tip Sheet &amp;amp;amp; Worksheet&amp;amp;nbsp;   It's&amp;amp;nbsp;Okay That&amp;amp;nbsp;It's&amp;amp;nbsp;Not the Same: Grief at the Holidays&amp;amp;nbsp;   It Can Be So Awkward: Holidays &amp;amp;amp; Grief&amp;amp;nbsp;   The Not- Most Wonderful Time of the Year: Holidays &amp;amp;amp; Grief&amp;amp;nbsp;   Grief And The Holidays&amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp;   Under Pressure – Grief &amp;amp;amp; December Holidays&amp;amp;nbsp; Watch Brennan's TEDxPortland Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZN4zP5baJrg  Read her A Kid's Book About Grief - https://dougybookstore.org/products/a-kids-book-about-grief  Learn more about Brennan - https://www.dougy.org/about/team-dougy/executive-director  </description>
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