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  <title>408 Overcoming Betrayal And Suicidal Depression In Sobriety</title>
  <description>How Journaling, Community &amp;amp;amp; Self-Compassion Can Transform Recovery: A Conversation with Sonia In this episode, Sonia from Sisters in Sobriety joins us for a deeply honest conversation about recovery, journaling, trauma, and rebuilding life after addiction. Sonia shares how her drinking escalated from teenage experimentation to daily wine-drinking as a high-functioning professional. While she never had the “traditional” external bottom, she described being emotionally bottomed out — chronically ill, blacking out, and unable to imagine a future. What finally shifted? A moment of clarity at brunch, when she said “no” to a mimosa for the first time. From there, she began exploring sobriety through AA literature, community support, and eventually the practice that changed everything: journaling. Key topics we covered:   Moderation vs. abstinence: Some people can moderate; some can’t. Addiction exists on a spectrum.    Trauma and dissociation: Many of us learned early to ignore our intuition and numb discomfort.    Healing through writing: Journaling processes emotions the same way talking to a friend does.    Different journaling styles:     Morning pages (The Artist’s Way)    Gratitude lists    Emotional processing    Prompt-based journaling    Somatic/body-scan journaling     Rebuilding after betrayal: Journaling helped Sonia reclaim her identity after divorce.    The importance of community: A network of supportive women helped her through the darkest moments.    &amp;amp;nbsp;  &amp;amp;nbsp; ACTION ITEMS FOR LISTENERS ✔️ Try morning pages for 7 days — write 3 pages of unfiltered thoughts every morning. ✔️ Start a nightly gratitude list focusing on 3 things from that day. ✔️ Practice a weekly “body-scan journal session” and write about physical sensations + emotions. ✔️ Identify 3 people you can call when you’re struggling — and practice willingness calls. ✔️ Reflect on the question: Can I moderate? — and be honest with your evidence. &amp;amp;nbsp;  &amp;amp;nbsp; BOOKS MENTIONED   Blackout — Sarah Hepola    Running with Scissors — Augusten Burroughs    The Artist’s Way — Julia Cameron    The Power of Two-Way Prayer — Father Bill W.    Radical Self-Acceptance — Tara Brach    The Obstacle Is the Way — Ryan Holiday   &amp;amp;nbsp; 👊🏼Need help applying this information to your own life? Here are 3 ways to get started: 🎁Free Guide: 30 Tips for Your First 30 Days - With a printable PDF checklist Grab your copy here: https://www.soberlifeschool.com ☎️Private Coaching: Make Sobriety Stick https://www.makesobrietystick.com Subscribe So You Don’t Miss New Episodes! &amp;amp;nbsp; Listen to the episode on  Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or Amazon Music, or you can stream it from my website HERE. You can also watch the interview on YouTube.  https://www.youtube.com/@theonedayatatimepodcast?sub_confirmation=1   &amp;amp;nbsp;   &amp;amp;nbsp; Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-one-day-at-a-time-recovery-podcast/id1212504521 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4I23r7DBTpT8XwUUwHRNpB Amazon Music:  https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/a8eb438c-5af1-493b-99c1-f218e5553aff/the-one-day-at-a-time-recovery-podcast &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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