1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 Emotional affairs can be one of the most confusing and painful experiences in a relationship. In this episode, I’m breaking down what they really are — and what they’re actually about. So many people believe emotional affairs are about the “other person,” but I’ll show you why they’re often rooted in something deeper: unmet emotional hunger, self-abandonment, and the longing to feel fully alive again. You’ll learn why these relationships can feel electric, why secrecy distorts truth, and how both partners can begin to heal — not by policing behavior, but by learning to be honest without self-abandonment. Whether you’ve been betrayed or have strayed yourself, this conversation will help you understand what your deeper needs are and how to meet them with integrity. Key Takeaways: Emotional affairs are about unmet needs, not just betrayal. The healing path begins with radical self-honesty. Integrity isn’t the absence of desire — it’s staying present with it. Growth means learning to choose yourself without self-rejection. If this episode resonates, I’d love to help you on your healing journey. Reach out or join my next class at https://andreagiles.com/. More from me: Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity Sign up for the $47 class &quot;Decide: How to Commit to Staying or Going After Infidelity&quot; here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/decide Apply to join the &quot;Get Your Life Back After Infidelity&quot; group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes! For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles Heal from Infidelity: Reclaiming Your Peace, Power, and Self-Trust After Betrayal https://andreagiles.com/ <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/38850080/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/item/38850080