1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 In this episode of &quot;Saying Yes Again,&quot; Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the guilt many feel when finding happiness after divorce. Challenging societal expectations that equate visible suffering with caring, they encourage listeners to embrace joy without apology. Drawing on personal experiences and public figures like Cardi B and Teyana Taylor, the hosts discuss setting boundaries, celebrating small wins, and reframing happiness as a sign of growth. Their heartfelt conversation reassures listeners that moving forward is a healthy choice, and choosing happiness after heartbreak is both valid and courageous. Follow and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube. Welcome and Introduction (00:00:01)&amp;nbsp;Dr. Lisa and Tony introduce themselves and the podcast’s focus on second chances and love after divorce. Introducing the Topic: Guilt After Divorce (00:00:36)&amp;nbsp;They introduce the episode’s theme: feeling guilty for being happy after divorce. Describing Post-Divorce Guilt (00:01:22)&amp;nbsp;Discussion about the common feelings of guilt when enjoying life after divorce. Societal Expectations and Guilt (00:03:31)&amp;nbsp;Exploring how society expects visible sadness after divorce and how that fuels guilt. The Impact of Guilt and Staying Stuck (00:04:33)&amp;nbsp;How guilt keeps people stuck and prevents healing and moving forward. Society’s Unspoken Rules About Divorce (00:05:04)&amp;nbsp;Unpacking the cultural expectation to “wear pain like a badge of honor” after divorce. Personal Experiences with Guilt and Healing (00:08:30)&amp;nbsp;Dr. Lisa and Tony share their personal experiences with others’ expectations and their own healing timelines. Permission to Be Happy (00:10:19)&amp;nbsp;Affirming that it’s okay to be happy, laugh, and look forward to the future after divorce. Happiness Doesn’t Mean You Didn’t Care (00:11:03)&amp;nbsp;Clarifying that happiness after divorce doesn’t mean you didn’t care about your marriage. Media Examples: Cardi B and Teyana Taylor (00:12:03) Discussing public figures who embraced happiness after divorce despite criticism. Practical Steps to Overcome Guilt (00:15:59)&amp;nbsp;Offering concrete steps: reframing your story, setting boundaries, and celebrating small joys. The Ripple Effect of Happiness (00:18:06)&amp;nbsp;Explaining how personal happiness positively impacts others and breaks cycles of guilt. Hosts’ Personal Journey to Happiness (00:18:57) Dr. Lisa and Tony reflect on their own journey from heartbreak to happiness together. &amp;nbsp; Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story. https://sites.libsyn.com/576435 <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/37413155/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/item/37413155