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  <title>45. Are you a People Pleaser</title>
  <description>&amp;amp;ldquo;Sure, I can work late tonight.&amp;quot; &amp;amp;ldquo;Yeah, you can crash at my place.&amp;amp;rdquo; &amp;amp;ldquo;I can babysit, no problem.&amp;amp;rdquo; &amp;amp;ldquo;I can lend you some money.&amp;amp;rdquo;&#13;
These are things a people pleaser might say. People pleasers take on too much and don't know when to say &amp;quot;no&amp;quot;. Their desire to please others and be seen as important and helpful can lead to overwhelm and resentment.&#13;
Today,&amp;amp;nbsp;I talk about why people have a have time saying No and some ways to stop being a pushover.&#13;
Other resources on being a people pleaser:&#13;
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How&amp;amp;nbsp;to stop being a people pleaser from Oprah.com&#13;
Dr. Elaine Aron on sensitivity to criticism&#13;
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Podcast music attribution: Bust This Bust That (Professor Kliq) / CC BY-NC-SA 3.0&amp;amp;nbsp;</description>
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