1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 I believe relationships can often be enmeshed in the sense you have two people so focused on each other but not looking at themselves. &amp;nbsp;One partner can subconsciously blame the other partner for their past wounds. &amp;nbsp;While the other partner feels responsible and wants to be their savior. &amp;nbsp;Either way, you have two people so focused on each other which causes &amp;nbsp;their individual happiness to be dependent on what's outside of themselves. &amp;nbsp; Interestingly this phenomenon of enmeshment also carries over to how we relate to the world and to life itself. &amp;nbsp;We look to the world to give us happiness and worthiness by thinking the completion of our goals and desires will give us happiness. &amp;nbsp; We have completely forgotten who we are since we only know ourselves in relation to what is outside of ourselves. &amp;nbsp;We forget who we are as individuals. &amp;nbsp; How do we uncover our true selves when we have identified ourselves through the world? &amp;nbsp;Listen to this weeks' podcast to find out. &amp;nbsp; Heal From the Ground Up http://www.healfromthegroundup.com <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/3593635/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/item/3593635