1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 Men, do you feel like you have to please your woman?&amp;nbsp; Like it is so difficult to figure out how to make her happy and get the connection that you want?&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; Women, do you feel like you've been putting in a lot of effort to evolve and you want him to meet you?&amp;nbsp; Do you feel like you tell him exactly what to do and it still doesn't seem like he gets it?&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; If you answered yes to these questions, you have an unconscious&amp;nbsp;performance dynamic going on in your relationship and today's podcast episode can help!&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; We cover:&amp;nbsp; + The shadow of performance culture + What women are avoiding by telling their men what to do + How &quot;not enough&quot; drives his perpetual efforts to &quot;get it right&quot;&amp;nbsp; + The alternative to masculine performance (hint: it's not talking about your emotions) + Moving from performance to presence &amp;nbsp; Learn more about couples coaching and support with Sarah Poet at: https://www.sarahpoet.com/consciousrelating &amp;nbsp; Men's private coaching can be found at:&amp;nbsp; https://www.sarahpoet.com/private-coaching-for-men &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; #masculinity #men #shadow #performanceculture #masculine #sacredmasculine #patriarchy #relationships #consciousrelationships #relationshipcoach #traumainformed #menswork #energy #polarity #masculinefeminine #femininemasculine&amp;nbsp; Sacred Remembering http://www.sarahpoet.com/podcast <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/28304510/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/content/162767462