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  <title>Retreats for Adoptees with Cindy McQuay - Ep 85</title>
  <description>In this week’s Unraveling Adoption podcast, Beth talks with Cindy Olson McQuay, an adoptee from Pennsylvania who is the co-founder, with Erin Cosentino, of Hiraeth Healing Retreats for Adoptees, DCPs (Donor Conceived People), LDAs (Late Discovery Adoptees), and NPEs (Not Parent Expected). Cindy is a baby scoop era domestic infant adoptee, and she had a rather idyllic childhood with well-informed and open adoptive parents, which was somewhat unusual at the time.&amp;amp;nbsp; Besides her work for Hiraeth, she advocates for adoption law reform and educates the public about separation trauma.&amp;amp;nbsp; =============== 📆 Community Calendar: UnravelingAdoption.com/Calendar 💌Sign up for our Unraveling Adoption email list: http://eepurl.com/hVIAVX =============== RESOURCES: Cindy’s information:   Hiraeth Hope &amp;amp;amp; Healing Retreats: https://www.hiraethhopeandhealing.com/   Email: info@hiraethhopeandhealing.com    Other things mentioned in this episode:   The Chosen Baby book from Cindy’s childhood: https://amzn.to/3FwgCdn   The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler: https://amzn.to/3JNM35j   InterCountry Adoptee Voices (ICAV) with Lynelle Long: https://intercountryadopteevoices.com/    Other Resources:   APtitude: A Support Group for Adoptive Parents Facing Adoption’s Challenges - UnravelingAdoption.com/APtitude   Other Parents Like Me - &amp;amp;nbsp;https://www.facebook.com/other.parents.like.me   Heather Ross - Life Coaching for Parents of Addicted Teens: https://heatherrosscoaching.com/   Find a Tele-Therapist: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/online-counseling   =============== Unraveling Adoption is produced and hosted by Beth Syverson Music written and performed by Joseph Nakao Email questions or comments to Beth@UnravelingAdoption.com Find us on Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube Support UnravelingAdoption on Patreon: Patreon.com/UnravelingAdoption www.UnravelingAdoption.com =============== TIME STAMPS: &amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp;1:25 Cindy’s adoption story and childhood &amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp;6:40 Cindy’s search for her birth family 10:35 Does a “good adoption” preclude adoption trauma? 15:44 What prompted Cindy to become an adoption activist and search angel? 16:58 Adoption v. Guardianship 18:46 The problems with intercountry adoption and surrogacy 21:49 What is Hiraeth Hope &amp;amp;amp; Healing? 25:25 The overlaps between adoptees, LDAs, DCPs, and NPEs 27:03 What do people experience at Hiraeth retreats?&amp;amp;nbsp; 31:40 Scholarships ARE available! And help them find mansions to host these retreats&amp;amp;nbsp; 35:17 Advice for non-adoptees and adoptive parents </description>
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