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  <title>Sober During the Holidays - Recovered 458</title>
  <description>Over the course of the last few weeks, many of us struggled to maintain our sobriety. &amp;amp;nbsp;We will talk about and review why this was, what we did early on, and how we maintain our sobriety now.&#13;
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Also, if you&amp;amp;rsquo;re new and you haven&amp;amp;rsquo;t yet been able to quit and you want this to be your last holiday in a fog, we will tell &amp;amp;nbsp;you about our last holiday and how grateful we don&amp;amp;rsquo;t have to do that anymore. &amp;amp;nbsp;We know that you think you don&amp;amp;rsquo;t have a choice, we didn&amp;amp;rsquo;t have one either, but you have to believe us when we say there is a solution.&#13;
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SURVEY SAYS&#13;
Your thoughts?&#13;
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What has been your experience? what did the holidays use to be like?&#13;
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What do you recommend for the new guy going through his first Holiday season?&#13;
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Here are some suggested tips, what do you think, what has been your experience&#13;
Tips to Stay Sober During the Holidays&#13;
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Plan Your Days. Let your sponsor or friend in recovery know where you will be, and have their phone number with you in case you need encouragement.&#13;
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Have a Plan B. If you must attend a party or gathering where alcohol is being served, have an escape route or alternative place to go if you suddenly feel uncomfortable around the alcohol, like for a coffee or out to a movie.&#13;
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Be Specific When Offered a Drink. Instead of awkwardly telling the person that you&amp;amp;rsquo;re a recovering alcoholic, just say &amp;amp;ldquo;Sure, a Coke/Sprite/water with lemon would be great.&amp;amp;rdquo;&#13;
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Outsmart the Disease. Stay connected to sober people, places, and things. Don&amp;amp;rsquo;t go to places serving alcohol if you don&amp;amp;rsquo;t need to.&#13;
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Take Extra Care of Yourself. Remember to slow down and take some quiet time for yourself during this busy time of year.&#13;
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Don&amp;amp;rsquo;t Overindulge. Go easy on the holiday sweets, exercise regularly, and don&amp;amp;rsquo;t try to do too much.&#13;
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Find New Ways to Celebrate Create some new symbols and rituals that will help redefine a joyful holiday season. You might host a holiday gathering for special recovering friends and/or attend celebrations of your 12 Step group.&#13;
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Final Thoughts&#13;
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http://anonpress.org/bb/&#13;
http://aa.org/twelveandtwelve/en_tableofcnt.cfm&#13;
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http://www.hazelden.org/web/public/thought.view?catId=1901&#13;
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