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  <title>53. How to Enjoy Porn Ethically</title>
  <description>How can you enjoy porn ethically - with more of the pleasure and less of the guilt?&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; Porn is commonly used to accompany masturbation. On this episode, Sara chats with erotic filmmaker Paulita Pappel (www.paulitapappel.com) on what constitutes “ethical porn” and how to consume it in a healthy and responsible way.&amp;amp;nbsp;  As someone who has been both in front and behind the camera, Paulita shares her journey into erotic filmmaking and how she defines her role as a feminist in the industry. &amp;amp;nbsp; She shares her personal motivations around starting Lustery, a shame-free space for people to share home-made videos of their love and lust with the world. &amp;amp;nbsp; We also discuss the changing conversation around porn, which is becoming more nuanced and take some time to challenge some commonly held stereotypes. &amp;amp;nbsp; We wrap up the conversation with some practical tips on being an ethical porn consumer and setting aside the performative mindset around sex. &amp;amp;nbsp; Instead of porn being a topic fueled by stigma, this conversation with Paulita relooks at porn as a genre of entertainment and a way to understand our sexuality, when used responsibly. &amp;amp;nbsp; So if you want to develop better porn habits or explore new fantasies, this episode will give you the tools to make the most informed choices in terms of what you consume.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; --- &amp;amp;nbsp; - &amp;amp;nbsp; Support this show on Patreon http://patreon.com/betterinbed &amp;amp;nbsp; - &amp;amp;nbsp; Visit Sarasense website http://sarasense.com &amp;amp;nbsp; - &amp;amp;nbsp; Follow @hellosarasense on Instagram &amp;amp;nbsp; -&amp;amp;nbsp; Check out our sponsors that help keep this show free: OhMiBod (http://lovelifetoys.com, @ohmibod) and Promescent (http://promescent.com, @promescent) &amp;amp;nbsp; -&amp;amp;nbsp; Detailed show notes for this episode at http://sarasense.com/podcast&amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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