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  <title>People-pleasing In Relationships &amp;amp; What To Do About It</title>
  <description>People-pleasing is all about being heavily lopsided in pleasing others as a way of gaining their approval &amp;amp;amp; maintaining relationships. People-pleasing is of course on a continuum, at work in a subordinate role &amp;amp;amp; to fit in socially it is very useful. Less useful are those people-pleasers who end up erasing their authentic self in relationships.&amp;amp;nbsp;People-pleasers have to learn to make conflict &amp;amp;amp; disagreement bearable because this is normal. Stop &amp;amp;amp; consider that conflict increases intimacy &amp;amp;amp; your relationships will be less superficial. </description>
  <author_name>What Healthy Couples Know That You Don't: Relationship Advice and Respect</author_name>
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