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  <title>46. Sex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?</title>
  <description>Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start? &amp;amp;nbsp; On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as: &amp;amp;nbsp;  What basic ground rules should I set if I’m just starting out with open relationships How can I handle my intense attraction to a new lover since I started to open my relationship with my spouse? I want to have an open relationship, but how do I manage my jealousy? How do I bring up an open relationship to a partner that has been previously unreceptive?  &amp;amp;nbsp; Some ground rules that Valentina and I discuss for an open relationship include: prioritizing your partner, having regular check-ins, communicating your needs with compassion, and a strong commitment to radical honesty. &amp;amp;nbsp; We also share tips around managing jealousy and how when used constructively, jealousy can be a useful tool to help us address issues and get what we need. &amp;amp;nbsp; We also offer reminders and tips for couples who are in the process of opening up their relationship to think about it as if they're embarking on a joint adventure or an exciting journey together.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; If you're interested in open relationships, we suggest bringing up the conversation regarding your values and beliefs around non-traditional relationship models early in the dating process to avoid a future mismatch and heartbreak. &amp;amp;nbsp; This episode is a must-listen if you and/or your partner are curious about non-monogamy or trying to work up the courage to open your relationship. &amp;amp;nbsp; ---  Support this show on Patreon http://patreon.com/betterinbed  &amp;amp;nbsp;  Visit Sarasense website http://sarasense.com  &amp;amp;nbsp;  Follow @hellosarasense on Instagram  &amp;amp;nbsp;  Support our sponsor Beducated. Get 65% off their annual subscription with code BETTERINBED at http://beducate.me/betterinbed  &amp;amp;nbsp;  Detailed show notes for this episode  here.  </description>
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