1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 Remember the old hit Smoke gets In Your Eyes? This story I tell you today is a rebuff to these sorts of tired old romantic cliches of pop. A story about the scales falling from my eyes and the lyric from that song Something inside cannot be denied takes on a completely new meaning. Points to think about when the scales fall from your eyes: #1 Don’t waste time feeling stupid in retrospect. At least you can see the truth now. #2 Think about how you can show up strong when you see them again (there is a specific strategy to this) #3 Forget trying to erase or solve the pain of the situation/reaslisation, and focus instead on building resilience. &amp;nbsp; Email me: info {at} theshiftinside.com Stop People Pleasing https://www.theshiftinside.com/ <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/18038666/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/item/18038666