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  <title>How to Find Your Mentor </title>
  <description>&amp;amp;nbsp; The term mentor is grossly misused in this day and age and I’m here to tell you why. Now, as I have grown in entrepreneurship and business, I have had many people that I consider mentors come into my life. It wasn’t until I heard Roy H. Williams’ definition however, that I realized the number was smaller than I thought.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; You see a mentor is a person who is invested in your life and your work, in depth, over a period of time. They are not flighty people who are invested episodically. Instead, this is a person that you speak with constantly. This person hears all of your thoughts, ideas, struggles, and more and helps you to move through and past them.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; The mentor-mentee relationship is one of the most important you will ever have in your life. Which is why it is so important that you choose a mentor well. Listen in to learn the seven steps to identifying and approaching your future mentor. Your three key insights are:&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp;  What the definition of a mentor is and where it originates from. Why the principle of mentoring is a sacred relationship and rare. How to find the right mentor for you to assist you to evolve faster.  &amp;amp;nbsp; Who do you think would be the best mentor for you at this point in your life?&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; In This Episode:&amp;amp;nbsp; [01:30] - Welcome back to All Selling Aside. [04:02] - Learn the three key insights reviewed in this episode.&amp;amp;nbsp; [05:37] - Alex shares the definition of mentorship per Wikipedia. [06:35] - What is required of a mentor mentee relationship?&amp;amp;nbsp; [10:08] - When did formal mentoring start?&amp;amp;nbsp; [11:21] - Learn the different names for a mentor throughout the world.&amp;amp;nbsp; [12:46] - Why there is a rampant misuse of the word mentor in this age.&amp;amp;nbsp; [15:19] - Per Roy H. Williams, when you find a mentor you become a protege.&amp;amp;nbsp; [17:12] - Learn more about the relationship between Lucille Ball and Carol Burnett. [18:55] - Why mentors are so important to not just business but life.&amp;amp;nbsp; [23:05] - Alex has a habit of being mentored by his former mentees.&amp;amp;nbsp; [24:19] - One additional interesting thing about mentors through the story of Freddie Laker.&amp;amp;nbsp; [25:37] - Learn the 7 steps you should take to identify and find your mentor.&amp;amp;nbsp;  Identify an area of improvement. Identify a leader whom you admire and respect.&amp;amp;nbsp; Learn everything you can about that leader. Find out who that leader’s mentor is or was.&amp;amp;nbsp; Learn who they respect and admire that you can access easier.&amp;amp;nbsp; Ask for an introduction.  [29:04] - If you have a target in mind and it doesn’t work out, rinse and repeat.&amp;amp;nbsp; [30:07] - The Alexism is, “Experience is NOT the best teacher. It’s the only teacher.”&amp;amp;nbsp; [30:29] - Hear a quick review of the key insights in this episode:&amp;amp;nbsp;  What the definition of a mentor is and where it originates from. Why the principle of mentoring is a sacred relationship and rare. How to find the right mentor for you to assist you to evolve faster.&amp;amp;nbsp;  [31:50] - If you’ve already given Alex a review, write down your biggest takeaway from this episode on an index card. If you haven’t, though, please use that Aha! moment as your review for the show at  this link! [33:38] - In honor of this episode, Alex gives listeners a final gift. You can get a 30-day free test drive of Kartra.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; Links and Resources:&amp;amp;nbsp; Alex Mandossian Alex Mandossian Fan on Facebook Alex’s Friday Live events MarketingOnline.com  Marketing Online 4-Part Video Training Series  Alex Mandossian on YouTube  Alexisms by Alex Mandossian All Selling Aside on iTunes &amp;amp;nbsp; Monday Morning Memo Sir Freddie Laker Sir Richard Branson </description>
  <author_name>All Selling Aside with Alex Mandossian | &amp;quot;Seeding Through Storytelling is the 'New' Selling!&amp;quot;</author_name>
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