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  <title>Ep 27: The Second Biggest Mistake People Make When Divorcing and How to Avoid It</title>
  <description>In today's episode, certified divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian addresses the second biggest mistake you can make when negotiating the terms of your divorce-&amp;amp;nbsp;adopting&amp;amp;nbsp;the &amp;quot;My Way or the Highway&amp;quot; mindset.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; Navigating your difficult emotions during this time can lead to acting out of frustration, anger, and anxiety for your future. Even if you force your way into litigation over a contentious issue, it may not always work out in your favor.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; Zeppy does a deep dive into why this is such a dangerous (and often costly) line of thought.&amp;amp;nbsp;She provides you with the four steps to reframe this mindset, evaluate your emotions, and approach your negotiations with a clear head and a variety of perspectives.&amp;amp;nbsp;You'll learn how to ultimately come to a compromise that really works for you and your soon-to-be-ex.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; For further one-on-one guidance, take advantage of our FREE 30-minute consultations with one of our divorce coaches here!&amp;amp;nbsp;www.decodingdivorce.com/contact&amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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