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  <title>Doing 'The Work' with Byron Katie</title>
  <description>Look around your local gym long enough, and you're likely to see the phrase &amp;quot;Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional,&amp;quot; emblazoned on a bumper sticker, a T-shirt, or a bicep in the form of a tattoo. It's one thing to adopt that mantra as a way to encourage yourself to eke out one more rep or run one more minute. It's another to adopt it as an overall way of life.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; That's what Byron Katie specializes in. &amp;quot;The Work&amp;quot; that it takes to wake up to reality, let go of negative perceptions about yourself and your place in the world and to stop judging - others and yourself. Ask yourself a series of four questions when you're having a strong emotional reaction--  1. Is it true?&amp;amp;nbsp; 2. Can I be sure that it's true?&amp;amp;nbsp; 3. How do I react when I believe that it's true?&amp;amp;nbsp; 4. Who would I be without this thought? &amp;amp;nbsp; If you do this simple--but not easy--exercise on a regular basis you can begin to opt-out of suffering and make more conscious decisions about your life.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; And remember, as Katie says: Reality is always kind. It's just that we so rarely live in it. </description>
  <author_name>The Man Rules</author_name>
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