{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"84. john cusack ruined a lot of things (for my generation): quickie with an actor","description":"Usually, our conversation is long, sensual, and languorous, lasting between two and three hours, and when I release it as horizontal with lila, I divide it into two parts\u2014 the first half is available in all the podcast places, and the second is available exclusively to my patrons of the horizontal arts. You can become a patron for access to the Full Horizontal, plus a monthly video of Intimacy Tips, and an invitation to the secret patrons group: Become a Patron! My part two episodes always conclude like this: At the end of each conversation, I ask my guest to tell me a story. It can be any story under the broad umbrella of intimacy \u2014 in other words, a tale that is related to sex, love, or relationships of any kind. I ask that my guest choose a story they feel deeply compelled to tell me, and trust that it will be the right one: a narrative that others need to hear.  I\u2019ve had stories of myriad types and tones \u2014 stories about the first time ejaculating (episode 2. stuff came out), about friendship and suicide (episode 15. friend death), about having a relationship with a couple (episode 10. his fingers are always hard), about a big freaky wedding (episode 49. bawdy storytelling), etc. As I said. All kinds. My live event horizontal storytelling, is just these stories, told back-to-back by six different pajama-clad, reclining storytellers. And on this coming Sunday, June 30th, two days from the release of this episode, I\u2019m hosting another one. This time it will the horizontal storytelling pajama party: summer pride edition, and all tales told will be from the lips of LGBTQPIAD storytellers.  LGBTQPIAD stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Pansexual, Intersex, Asexual, and Demisexual. If you\u2019re unfamiliar with any of those terms, check the glossary on horizontalwithlila.com, and while you\u2019re there, sign up for the mailing list, so that you\u2019ll know about all the events. This weekend\u2019s horizontal storytelling will include tales from folx across the gender and sexuality rainbow, and tickets are sliding scale for anybody in the community \u2014 just message me for a personalized discount code. If you are an ally, use the code LILALOVE in all caps, for $5 off. So... I am broadcasting this quickie episode in honor of Sunday\u2019s upcoming event. This is one of the never-before-released tales from the last horizontal storytelling, held in February 2018! In this quickie, I lie down with Bill Demeritt. Bill is a thespian, which means that he spends a large portion of his life pretending to be someone else. Most of the people who do that exceptionally, are gifted with a formidable sense of compassion, and I believe that Bill is no different in that regard. He performs on stage and screen (you can see him in the Emmy-winning The Normal Heart and Season Two of the acclaimed Vimeo series The Outs). He narrates audiobooks and longform journalism. He studied acting at Marymount Manhattan and the Yale School of Drama. He\u2019s currently at the Oregon Shakespeare Festival working on Paula Vogel\u2019s play \u201cIndecent.\u201d Bill is charming and game and playful and handsome and nebbishy and a leetle bit nervous, all at the same time. You can find all things Bill on WilliamDemeritt.com I first met Bill while doing a live recording of Carol A. Jantsen\u2019s Help: a podcast for those who need it, in which an agoraphobe character with self-help aspirations begins to get out in the world. In Season 2 Episode 1: Lila Donnolo and the Double Date, Carol & I, Bill & Celeste go on a fictional double date in a very real Chinese food restaurant. Bill was cast as my \u201cdate,\u201d and on the day we recorded, Bill brought me a dozen roses, that\u2019s how committed he was to the scene. (I somehow ended up with 11 and they were sort of a consolation prize, but it\u2019s fine.) He\u2019s getting married in November, after pulling off one of the most theatrical stage proposals I have ever seen captured on video. Congratulations, Bill. And thank you for showing me how it\u2019s done. In our quickie, Bill tells me a story about pierogis in New York, a callipygous behind, going to Poland for sex (and love), kohana, the word for sweetheart, a romantic trip to Nice, and the Grand Gesture. And now, join us on Sunday for the next horizontal storytelling\u2026 And come lie down with us at Hacienda Studio in Bushwick, Brooklyn.   * This episode was mixed and mastered by Christopher Liang at audio dojo. ","author_name":"horizontal with lila","author_url":"https:\/\/horizontalwithlila.com","html":"